Middle of the Fence
Welcome to Middle of the Fence, the podcast hosted by Andre Spruell that explores what it means to grow up between two different worlds.
Raised in one of New Jersey’s highest-crime areas while attending private school in one of the wealthiest counties in the country, Andre experienced firsthand the contrast between environments, perspectives, expectations, and identities. But Middle of the Fence goes beyond just one story.
This podcast dives into the experiences of people who have had to navigate different sides of life...whether socioeconomic, cultural, racial, religious, professional, or personal and the lessons, struggles, and growth that come from living between those worlds.
Through authentic solo episodes, thought-provoking interviews, and honest conversations, Middle of the Fence tackles topics such as identity, mental health, personal growth, relationships, success, social pressure, faith, culture, and self-discovery.
At its core, the podcast is about finding common ground in a divided world and reminding people that no matter what side of the fence we grew up on, we’re all more alike than we think.
New episodes every Wednesday.
Middle of the Fence
The Fear of Being Seen Trying | Ep. 31
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The Fear of Being Seen Trying | Stop Hiding Your Growth (Ep. 31)
Have you ever wanted something so badly… but stayed quiet about it?
In this episode of Middle of the Fence, Andre dives into the fear of being seen and the anxiety that comes from putting yourself out there before you feel ready. From perfectionism and over-planning to overthinking and social judgment, this episode breaks down why so many of us hide our goals and delay action.
You’ll learn:
• Why perfectionism keeps people stuck
• How fear of judgment fuels avoidance
• The psychology behind the Spotlight Effect
• Why looking foolish is actually a superpower
• How visibility builds confidence
• Why there is no such thing as “being ready”
This episode is for anyone who’s ever been afraid to post, share, or start.
Audience Question:
What’s one goal you’ve been hiding because you’re afraid of being seen trying?
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