Middle of the Fence
Welcome to Middle of the Fence, the captivating podcast that delves into the stark duality of a unique upbringing, combining the raw experiences of being raised in one of New Jersey’s highest-crime areas while having the privilege of receiving a top-tier private school education in Morris County, one of the wealthiest counties in the nation.
In each episode, Andre Spruell uncovers the complex interplay between these two contrasting worlds, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and unique perspectives that arise from this extraordinary upbringing. Through personal anecdotes, thought-provoking interviews, and in-depth discussions, Andre sheds a light on the rich tapestry of experiences that shaped his identity and worldview.
Middle of the Fence offers an authentic and unfiltered glimpse into the dynamics of socio-economic disparities, shedding light on the intersections of privilege, resilience, and community. With a keen focus on personal growth, social justice, and understanding, this podcast aims to bridge the gap between different realities, inspiring listeners to challenge their preconceptions and foster empathy in a world marked by diversity.
Tune in to Middle of the Fence and embark on a journey that explores the complex nuances of life, unveiling the unexpected connections and shared humanity that exist even amidst divergent circumstances.
Middle of the Fence
The Fear of Being Seen Trying | Ep. 31
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The Fear of Being Seen Trying | Stop Hiding Your Growth (Ep. 31)
Have you ever wanted something so badly… but stayed quiet about it?
In this episode of Middle of the Fence, Andre dives into the fear of being seen and the anxiety that comes from putting yourself out there before you feel ready. From perfectionism and over-planning to overthinking and social judgment, this episode breaks down why so many of us hide our goals and delay action.
You’ll learn:
• Why perfectionism keeps people stuck
• How fear of judgment fuels avoidance
• The psychology behind the Spotlight Effect
• Why looking foolish is actually a superpower
• How visibility builds confidence
• Why there is no such thing as “being ready”
This episode is for anyone who’s ever been afraid to post, share, or start.
Audience Question:
What’s one goal you’ve been hiding because you’re afraid of being seen trying?
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