Middle of the Fence
Welcome to Middle of the Fence, the captivating podcast that delves into the stark duality of a unique upbringing, combining the raw experiences of being raised in one of New Jersey’s highest-crime areas while having the privilege of receiving a top-tier private school education in Morris County, one of the wealthiest counties in the nation.
In each episode, Andre Spruell uncovers the complex interplay between these two contrasting worlds, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and unique perspectives that arise from this extraordinary upbringing. Through personal anecdotes, thought-provoking interviews, and in-depth discussions, Andre sheds a light on the rich tapestry of experiences that shaped his identity and worldview.
Middle of the Fence offers an authentic and unfiltered glimpse into the dynamics of socio-economic disparities, shedding light on the intersections of privilege, resilience, and community. With a keen focus on personal growth, social justice, and understanding, this podcast aims to bridge the gap between different realities, inspiring listeners to challenge their preconceptions and foster empathy in a world marked by diversity.
Tune in to Middle of the Fence and embark on a journey that explores the complex nuances of life, unveiling the unexpected connections and shared humanity that exist even amidst divergent circumstances.
Middle of the Fence
Loneliness of Becoming | Ep. 30
Have you ever felt lonely? Not because you had no one, but because you were becoming someone new?
In this episode of Middle of the Fence, Andre Spruell dives into The Loneliness of Becoming — a powerful and often misunderstood phase of personal growth. This episode explores why growth can feel isolating, why discipline creates distance, and why evolving into a new version of yourself can leave you feeling disconnected from familiar people, habits, and environments.
Andre shares personal stories about growing up feeling different, navigating family dynamics, embracing therapy, and learning how loneliness isn’t a weakness, it’s often a signal of transition. When your old life no longer fits and your new life hasn’t fully formed yet, loneliness shows up. This episode reframes that experience as part of the process, not a problem.
Listeners will gain insight into how growth creates separation, why negative self-talk can sabotage progress, and how intentional self-affirmation can help build confidence during lonely seasons. Andre also shares a grounding moment from his daily life that reinforces the importance of perspective, gratitude, and emotional awareness.
If you’re in a season where you feel alone, misunderstood, or out of sync with the people around you...this conversation will help you understand why.
Episode question:
Where in your life do you feel the most alone because you’re becoming someone new?
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