Middle of the Fence
Welcome to Middle of the Fence, the captivating podcast that delves into the stark duality of a unique upbringing, combining the raw experiences of being raised in one of New Jersey’s highest-crime areas while having the privilege of receiving a top-tier private school education in Morris County, one of the wealthiest counties in the nation.
In each episode, Andre Spruell uncovers the complex interplay between these two contrasting worlds, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and unique perspectives that arise from this extraordinary upbringing. Through personal anecdotes, thought-provoking interviews, and in-depth discussions, Andre sheds a light on the rich tapestry of experiences that shaped his identity and worldview.
Middle of the Fence offers an authentic and unfiltered glimpse into the dynamics of socio-economic disparities, shedding light on the intersections of privilege, resilience, and community. With a keen focus on personal growth, social justice, and understanding, this podcast aims to bridge the gap between different realities, inspiring listeners to challenge their preconceptions and foster empathy in a world marked by diversity.
Tune in to Middle of the Fence and embark on a journey that explores the complex nuances of life, unveiling the unexpected connections and shared humanity that exist even amidst divergent circumstances.
Middle of the Fence
The Guilt of Growth – Why Personal Growth Feels Uncomfortable | Ep. 29
Have you ever felt like becoming better was somehow making you worse?
In Episode 29 of Middle of the Fence, Andre Spruell dives into a feeling many of us experience but rarely talk about—the Guilt of Growth.
As you grow, your routines change. Your priorities change. Your availability changes. And sometimes, the people who knew the old version of you struggle to accept the new one.
This episode explores the emotional side of personal growth:
• Feeling guilty for saying no
• Outgrowing old habits and relationships
• The fear of leaving people behind
• Learning to set boundaries without feeling selfish
• Why leveling up can feel lonely before it feels empowering
Andre shares personal stories about becoming more disciplined, setting healthier boundaries, and navigating the tension between loyalty to others and loyalty to yourself.
Growth doesn’t just challenge you, it challenges your relationships.
If you’ve ever felt torn between who you used to be and who you’re becoming, this conversation is for you.
Question of the Episode:
Where in your life are you holding yourself back from growing because you’re afraid of making someone else uncomfortable?
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