Middle of the Fence
Welcome to Middle of the Fence, the captivating podcast that delves into the stark duality of a unique upbringing, combining the raw experiences of being raised in one of New Jersey’s highest-crime areas while having the privilege of receiving a top-tier private school education in Morris County, one of the wealthiest counties in the nation.
In each episode, Andre Spruell uncovers the complex interplay between these two contrasting worlds, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and unique perspectives that arise from this extraordinary upbringing. Through personal anecdotes, thought-provoking interviews, and in-depth discussions, Andre sheds a light on the rich tapestry of experiences that shaped his identity and worldview.
Middle of the Fence offers an authentic and unfiltered glimpse into the dynamics of socio-economic disparities, shedding light on the intersections of privilege, resilience, and community. With a keen focus on personal growth, social justice, and understanding, this podcast aims to bridge the gap between different realities, inspiring listeners to challenge their preconceptions and foster empathy in a world marked by diversity.
Tune in to Middle of the Fence and embark on a journey that explores the complex nuances of life, unveiling the unexpected connections and shared humanity that exist even amidst divergent circumstances.
Middle of the Fence
Christmas on Both Sides of the Fence | Sacrifice, Gratitude & Growing Up Between Worlds | Ep. 25
Christmas doesn’t look the same for everyone and that contrast can shape us for life.
In this Christmas Special episode of Middle of the Fence, I reflect on growing up between Tough Terrain and Affluent Acres, where some Christmases were full of gifts and others were defined by sacrifice, gratitude, and family resilience.
I share personal stories from childhood, high school, college, and my early 20s...from years where the living room was overflowing with gifts, to Christmases where one meaningful present had to be enough. These moments revealed deeper lessons about financial struggle, privilege, sacrifice, and emotional resilience.
This episode also explores:
- Why the Christmases with less often leave the biggest imprint
- How holidays expose financial stress more than any other time of year
- The emotional weight of returning to school after winter break
- What growing up between two worlds teaches you about gratitude and empathy
Backed by research from:
- University of Michigan Poverty Solutions
- Brookings Institution
- Harvard Center on the Developing Child
This episode isn’t about gifts — it’s about perspective, love, and the lessons that stay with us long after the holidays are over.
🎧 Whether you grew up with 20 gifts or 2, this one will hit home.
Middle of the Fence explores life between two worlds — where identity, class, culture, and experience collide — and reminds us that no matter what side of the fence you grew up on, we’re all more alike than we think.
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