Middle of the Fence
Welcome to Middle of the Fence, the captivating podcast that delves into the stark duality of a unique upbringing, combining the raw experiences of being raised in one of New Jersey’s highest-crime areas while having the privilege of receiving a top-tier private school education in Morris County, one of the wealthiest counties in the nation.
In each episode, Andre Spruell uncovers the complex interplay between these two contrasting worlds, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and unique perspectives that arise from this extraordinary upbringing. Through personal anecdotes, thought-provoking interviews, and in-depth discussions, Andre sheds a light on the rich tapestry of experiences that shaped his identity and worldview.
Middle of the Fence offers an authentic and unfiltered glimpse into the dynamics of socio-economic disparities, shedding light on the intersections of privilege, resilience, and community. With a keen focus on personal growth, social justice, and understanding, this podcast aims to bridge the gap between different realities, inspiring listeners to challenge their preconceptions and foster empathy in a world marked by diversity.
Tune in to Middle of the Fence and embark on a journey that explores the complex nuances of life, unveiling the unexpected connections and shared humanity that exist even amidst divergent circumstances.
Middle of the Fence
New Keys, New Mindset — What Moving Out Really Teaches You | Ep. 15
Moving out can mean freedom or survival—depending on which side of the fence you grew up on.
In this episode of Middle of the Fence, host Andre Spruell explores what independence looks like from both the Tough Terrain (urban environments built on resilience and self-sufficiency) and Affluent Acres (suburban upbringings rooted in stability and support).
Andre breaks down how socioeconomic background shapes our experience of living alone—from paying rent and managing bills to coping with solitude and building emotional strength.
💭 Key takeaways:
- Freedom vs. fragility: how resources change the meaning of independence
- Mental and emotional tolls of solitude
- The cost of freedom in America’s housing market
- Bridging the gap between privilege and perseverance
At the end of the day, no matter where you start, independence tests your emotional infrastructure.
🎧 Tune in to reflect, relate, and redefine what living on your own really means.
👇 QUESTION OF THE DAY:
When you think about living alone, does it feel more like freedom or survival?
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