Middle of the Fence
Welcome to Middle of the Fence, the captivating podcast that delves into the stark duality of a unique upbringing, combining the raw experiences of being raised in one of New Jersey’s highest-crime areas while having the privilege of receiving a top-tier private school education in Morris County, one of the wealthiest counties in the nation.
In each episode, Andre Spruell uncovers the complex interplay between these two contrasting worlds, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and unique perspectives that arise from this extraordinary upbringing. Through personal anecdotes, thought-provoking interviews, and in-depth discussions, Andre sheds a light on the rich tapestry of experiences that shaped his identity and worldview.
Middle of the Fence offers an authentic and unfiltered glimpse into the dynamics of socio-economic disparities, shedding light on the intersections of privilege, resilience, and community. With a keen focus on personal growth, social justice, and understanding, this podcast aims to bridge the gap between different realities, inspiring listeners to challenge their preconceptions and foster empathy in a world marked by diversity.
Tune in to Middle of the Fence and embark on a journey that explores the complex nuances of life, unveiling the unexpected connections and shared humanity that exist even amidst divergent circumstances.
Middle of the Fence
Mother’s Love, Father’s Absence: Lessons That Built Me | Ep. 13
In this episode of Middle of the Fence, host Andre Spruell reflects on the powerful and contrasting lessons he learned from both of his parents. Growing up straddling Tough Terrain (urban challenges) and Affluent Acres (suburban privilege), Andre shares how love, consistency, absence, and resilience shaped his values, relationships, and personal growth.
From his mother, he gained unwavering love, cultural grounding in his Argentinian roots, and the strength of emotional support. From his father, he learned the hard truths of absence, safe choices, and the importance of breaking generational cycles. Together, these experiences reveal how parental influence—whether positive or negative—becomes the blueprint for who we become.
✨ Topics in this episode:
-The impact of parenting styles on children’s emotional health
-Lessons of love, support, and resilience from his mother
-Hard truths and “what not to repeat” lessons from his father
-Breaking cycles and choosing growth in adulthood
-How both presence and absence shape identity and future parenting
💬 Interactive Question for You:
What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned from your parents—good or bad? Share in the comments or message Andre directly on social media.
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