Middle of the Fence
Welcome to Middle of the Fence, the captivating podcast that delves into the stark duality of a unique upbringing, combining the raw experiences of being raised in one of New Jersey’s highest-crime areas while having the privilege of receiving a top-tier private school education in Morris County, one of the wealthiest counties in the nation.
In each episode, Andre Spruell uncovers the complex interplay between these two contrasting worlds, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and unique perspectives that arise from this extraordinary upbringing. Through personal anecdotes, thought-provoking interviews, and in-depth discussions, Andre sheds a light on the rich tapestry of experiences that shaped his identity and worldview.
Middle of the Fence offers an authentic and unfiltered glimpse into the dynamics of socio-economic disparities, shedding light on the intersections of privilege, resilience, and community. With a keen focus on personal growth, social justice, and understanding, this podcast aims to bridge the gap between different realities, inspiring listeners to challenge their preconceptions and foster empathy in a world marked by diversity.
Tune in to Middle of the Fence and embark on a journey that explores the complex nuances of life, unveiling the unexpected connections and shared humanity that exist even amidst divergent circumstances.
Middle of the Fence
Love on Both Sides: Dating in Tough Terrain vs. Affluent Acres | Ep. 10
What does love look like on both sides of the fence? In this episode of Middle of the Fence, host Andre Spruell explores dating and relationships through two very different lenses—Tough Terrain (urban grit, survival, and struggle love) and Affluent Acres (status, reputation, and conditional love).
Andre shares his personal experiences navigating romance across both worlds—from being judged by status and financial background, to understanding how urban environments shape independence and relationship expectations. Along the way, he reflects on the biggest lessons learned in love: authenticity, values, and being with someone who truly wants to be with you.
Whether you’re single, dating, or building a long-term relationship, this episode offers raw insight into how love is shaped by environment, culture, and personal growth.
👉 Question for listeners: What’s the most important personal lesson you’ve learned in love? Comment below and join the conversation.
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